What you'll remember..
A renewed sense of choice and voice
You’ll learn to hear your body’s signals clearly, speak from them with confidence, and choose what genuinely serves you—inside pleasure, intimacy, and every corner of your life.
A new relationship to receiving
You’ll unlearn the tension, performance, and self-doubt that block pleasure and replace them with embodied receptivity, clarity, and confidence.
The ability to enter trance-like states through the body
Breath, rhythm, and conscious touch become pathways into altered states that feel erotic, spiritual, and deeply regulating.
About Your Facilitators
Kim Holden
www.kimholden.com

Kim Holden helps couples and partners reclaim connection, pleasure, and presence in their relationships. She has spent over a decade coaching individuals and couples, leading sex-positive communities, and creating spaces where people can slow down, feel more, and communicate with clarity.
Her experience is broad and deep with over 10 years coaching couples and individuals in intimacy. She has led tantric and relational practice communities and women’s support groups focused on sexual sovereignty. She has trained with top somatic and tantric experts and brings certifications in kundalini yoga and reiki. She serves as a sexual health consultant with Dr. Heather Bartos, adding clinical insight to her relational work.
Kim’s approach is grounded, practical, and sometimes playful. She believes intimacy is not about performance or perfection. She teaches partners how to practice presence, consent, and responsiveness.
Her work is for people who are ready to stop overthinking their relationships, move beyond tension and miscommunication, and experience intimacy as mutual, joyful and present.
Margaux Underwood
www.coalescing.me

Margaux Underwood is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator, coach, and intimacy guide whose work centers the body as a source of wisdom, choice, and repair. She was trained through the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and is a registered member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association, where she follows clear ethical standards around consent, touch, and care.
Margaux’s path into this work came from a simple but persistent question: What becomes possible when people feel safe enough in their bodies to actually listen to themselves? Over years of study and practice, she’s seen how much intimacy struggles—not just sexual ones—are rooted in disconnection, overthinking, and a lack of embodied agency. Her work is grounded, relational, and deeply respectful of nervous systems shaped by trauma, shame, or survival.
In her sessions and group work, Margaux blends somatic practices, consent-based touch education, breathwork, and relational tools to help people slow down, feel more, and make clearer choices from inside their bodies. She works both as a coach and practitioner, offering a range of intimacy-focused services that support pleasure, communication, embodiment, and repair—always led by the client’s pace and consent.
Margaux is known for creating containers that are warm but not coddling, structured but alive. She welcomes curiosity, honors discomfort as part of growth, and consistently returns people to their own authority. Whether working one-on-one or facilitating immersive group experiences like SAVOR, her intention is the same: to help people remember that pleasure, presence, and choice are not luxuries—they are skills that can be practiced.
About the Event
Day 1 - Opening the Field
Day One builds the foundation: safety, curiosity, and attunement. We begin in an opening circle, with an optional share inspired by the SAVOR Somatic Archetype Quiz from your intake process—a way of naming what draws you, excites you, or shapes your erotic landscape. From there, you’ll move into themed authentic relating games that soften the body and open communication.
We'll explore arousal through play: sensory experiments, mindful touch, and guided breathwork (including microcosmic circulation) that help you tune into your body’s natural rhythm. You’ll learn the fundamentals of the Wheel of Consent and begin with non-sexual touch to anchor into desire.
As the space warms, you’re invited into practices like disrobing or witnessing—always at your level of comfort—and, if desired, into more explicitly erotic touch.
Day 2 - Story, Fantasy, and Embodied Truth
Day Two turns toward the narratives, images, and internal landscapes that shape your erotic self. We open with another circle and themed authentic relating prompts that will touch on body image, shame, and the stories we carry in our skin.
From there, we move into Intimate Storytime, a tender practice of naming the history your body holds. Partners witness each other with reverence, presence, deep-listening, and care.
You’ll also move through a guided communal mindful erotic practice (cMEP), blending imagination, breath, sensation, and permission. The intention is not performance—it’s self-recognition. You learn how to bring pleasure into your body with agency, clarity, and an openness to be witnessed.
Day 3 - Trance, Ecstacy, and Embodied Union
Day Three weaves everything together. You’ll move through a fluid sequence of somatic tools—movement, breathwork, the Wheel of Consent, sensory exploration—and enter a structured ecstatic erotic touch practice designed to shift you into trance-like states. This is where partners often experience catharsis, emotional release, and the kind of intimacy that reveals new layers of connection. This practice will only be done between you and the partner you bring with you.
It’s a culmination: the skills you’ve learned become embodied, alive, and shared. You move not from technique, but from emergence. Your body becomes the guide, and your partnership becomes the ritual.
each day will end with a closing circle, shares, and integration time
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Curiosities & Clarifications
Don't worry, we got you. Here are some answers for the inquisitive bodies.
SAVOR is for couples, lovers, and practice partners who want to explore pleasure, intimacy, and embodied connection in a conscious, structured container. You don’t need to be romantically involved—only willing to trust each other, stay curious together, and show up with a shared desire to deepen into sensation. This series is ideal for partners seeking to slow down, reconnect, or discover new pathways to pleasure and presence.
Perfect. This series was designed with beginners in mind. You don’t need prior experience—just a willingness to notice, feel, and experiment. We guide you step by step, offering practical tools you can use long after the workshop. Everything is invitational, optional, and paced in a way that respects your nervous system and your relationship.
Yes. Your safety—emotional and somatic—is non-negotiable here. The pace is gentle, consent is ongoing, and there is no requirement to push past your limits. We also have two dedicated emotional-support space-holders present throughout the series. If anything arises—big feelings, discomfort, sensation overload, old patterns—you’ll have immediate support and a quiet, grounded place to recalibrate before rejoining the group. You are never alone inside this container.
The space is an open-concept room, but each couple will have their own defined section to practice in. Think of it as shared energy with personal territory. You’ll be close enough to feel part of a collective experience, yet grounded in your own intimate world with your partner.
We encourage soft eyes, not hard eyes—meaning no one will be watching you for their own stimulation or entertainment. Instead, participants are invited to hold a gentle, unfocused awareness of the room. This creates an atmosphere where you can draw inspiration from the collective field without feeling scrutinized or exposed.
Your connection remains your own, and the room is held with respect, discretion, and a strong culture of consent.
SAVOR isn’t just an experience—it’s a skill set. You’ll learn practices that help you speak your desires, regulate your body, give and receive touch with presence, and expand pleasure without pressure. These tools translate directly into your daily intimacy: better communication, deeper attunement, clearer boundaries, more confidence, and a relationship that feels alive rather than habitual. The work doesn’t end when the series ends; it ripples forward.
Yes. After completing SAVOR, you and your partner are invited to a free 1-hour integration session with either Kim or Margaux. If you prefer, this can be split into two 30-minute individual check-ins so each person can receive private coaching. This call is a space to reflect, ask questions, integrate the tools into your daily lives, and receive guidance tailored to your relationship’s next steps. Continued learning options will also be announced to the group for those who want to go deeper.
You don’t need experience to join Savor but you do need to bring a willingness to meet yourself honestly. This space will invite new sensations, new edges, and moments that may feel unfamiliar or uncomfortable. That’s part of the work.
We ask that you enter with a commitment to notice what’s happening in your body, name your experience, and advocate for yourself. You are responsible for speaking up when something doesn’t feel right, asking for what you need, and choosing the pace that honors your boundaries. We’ll teach you tools to strengthen this agency, but it begins with your willingness to practice it from the moment you walk in.
This is a space that supports you deeply but it does not rescue, placate, or override your autonomy. Your voice, your choice, and your body’s truth matter here. And your active participation in honoring them is what makes the container safe, powerful, and transformative for everyone present.
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