SAVOR
Immersive. Elevated. sExucational.
SAVOR is a three-part immersive series that comes from a simple belief: sexuality matters, but it’s not the whole story. Our bodies carry pleasure, yes—but they also carry history, habits, defenses, longings, and a lot of intelligence we don’t always know how to listen to.
This series isn’t about fixing your sex life or chasing peak experiences. It’s about slowing down enough to notice what’s already happening in your body and learning how to relate to it with more choice and care. Through somatic tools, breath, and conscious touch practices, you’ll practice softening, receiving, and staying present with sensation, without forcing it to become anything in particular.
When you let the body lead, things tend to reorganize. Pleasure can deepen, but so can clarity, grounding, and moments of altered or trance-like awareness that feel surprisingly practical and human. Savor is less about doing more, and more about learning how to listen better, and seeing what becomes possible from there.
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What you'll remember..
A renewed sense of choice and voice
You’ll learn how to recognize what your body is telling you, trust it enough to speak from it, and make choices that actually feel aligned. Not just in intimacy, but in life.
A new relationship to receiving
You’ll start to notice where tension, performance, or self-doubt get in the way of pleasure, and practice relating to your body with more ease and self-trust.
The ability to enter trance-like states through the body
Through breath, movement, and intentional touch, the body can naturally shift into altered states that feel ecstatic, yet surprisingly grounding.
About Your Facilitators
Kim Holden
Kim Holden helps couples and partners reclaim connection, pleasure, and presence in their relationships. She has spent over a decade coaching individuals and couples, leading sex-positive communities, and creating spaces where people can slow down, feel more, and communicate with clarity.
Her experience is broad and deep with over 10 years coaching couples and individuals in intimacy. She has led tantric and relational practice communities and women’s support groups focused on sexual sovereignty. She has trained with top somatic and tantric experts and brings certifications in kundalini yoga and reiki. She serves as a sexual health consultant with Dr. Heather Bartos, adding clinical insight to her relational work.
Kim’s approach is grounded, practical, and sometimes playful. She believes intimacy is not about performance or perfection. She teaches partners how to practice presence, consent, and responsiveness.
Her work is for people who are ready to stop overthinking their relationships, move beyond tension and miscommunication, and experience intimacy as mutual, joyful and present.
Margaux Underwood
Margaux Underwood is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator, coach, and intimacy guide whose work centers the body as a source of infinite, ancient wisdom. She was trained through the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and is a registered member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association, where her work is held by clear ethical standards around consent, touch, and care.
Margaux’s path into this work came from a simple but persistent question: What becomes possible when people feel safe enough in their bodies to actually listen to themselves? Over seven years of study and practice, she’s seen how much intimacy struggles—not just sexual ones—are rooted in disconnection, overthinking, and a lack of embodied agency. Her work is grounded and deeply respectful of nervous systems shaped by life's challenges.
In her sessions and group work, Margaux blends somatic practices, consent-based touch education, breathwork, and relational tools to help people slow down, feel more, and make clearer choices from inside their bodies.
Margaux is known for creating containers that are warm but not coddling, structured but alive. She welcomes curiosity, honors discomfort as part of growth, and consistently returns people to their own authority. Whether working one-on-one or facilitating immersive group experiences like SAVOR, her intention is the same: to help people remember that pleasure, presence, and choice are not luxuries—they are skills that can be practiced.
About the Event
Day 1 (March 7th) - Opening the Field
Day One is about laying the groundwork. We start by establishing safety, curiosity, and a shared sense of orientation. The opening circle includes an optional reflection drawn from the SAVOR Somatic Archetype Quiz you completed during intake—a way to name what tends to shape your relationship to pleasure, attraction, and choice. From there, we move into personalized authentic relating games that help our bodies land into presence and our voices root into desire.
From there, we begin exploring arousal in a low-pressure, playful way. This includes sensory experiments, mindful touch, and guided breathwork (including microcosmic circulation) to help you notice how your body responds when it’s given time and attention. We'll introduce the Wheel of Consent and begin with non-sexual touch, so desire has somewhere solid to land.
As the room warms and trust builds, you’re invited into practices like disrobing or witnessing, always at your own pace. For those who choose, this may open into more explicitly erotic touch. Choice remains central throughout, and nothing is assumed.
Day 2 (April 4th) - Story, Fantasy, and Embodied Truth
Day Two turns toward the stories that live in the body: the images, memories, and patterns that quietly shape how we relate to pleasure. We begin with another opening circle and personalized authentic relating prompts that gently touch on body image, shame, and the narratives we’ve absorbed over time.
From there, we move into Intimate Storytime, a slow, relational practice of naming what your body has lived through and learned. Partners take turns witnessing—not fixing, interpreting, or responding—just listening with presence and care.
We then move into a guided communal mindful erotic practice (cMEP). This blends imagination, breath, and sensation in a way that emphasizes choice and self-attunement. The point isn’t to perform or produce anything. It’s to recognize yourself in the experience while also sharing the space with our group.
Day 3 (May 2nd) - Trance, Ecstacy, and Embodied Union
Day Three brings everything together. We move through a continuous sequence of practices that draw from what you have already learned. Movement, breath, sensory exploration, and the Wheel of Consent are woven together so they feel lived in rather than instructional. From there, partners enter a structured ecstatic erotic touch practice that can support altered or trance-like states. This work is done only with the partner you arrive with.
For many people, this is where things settle into place. Sometimes that looks like emotional release. Sometimes it feels like clarity or a deeper sense of connection. Nothing is pushed and nothing is performed. The focus stays on what is actually happening in your body moment to moment.
By this point, technique matters less than trust. You are responding to what emerges rather than trying to do anything correctly. The body leads, and the partnership becomes the space where the work comes fully alive.
each day will end with a closing circle, shares, and integration time
Curiosities & Clarifications
Don't worry, we got you. Here are some answers for the inquisitive bodies.
SAVOR is for couples, lovers, and practice partners who want to explore pleasure, intimacy, and embodied connection in a conscious, structured container. You don’t need to be romantically involved—only willing to trust each other, stay curious together, and show up with a shared desire to deepen into sensation. This series is ideal for partners seeking to slow down, reconnect, or discover new pathways to pleasure and presence.
If you do not have a practice partner, you are welcome to sign up as a single and be put on our waitlist for a potential match come early February!
Perfect. This series was designed with beginners in mind. You don’t need prior experience—just a willingness to notice, feel, and experiment. We guide you step by step, offering practical tools you can use long after the workshop. Everything is invitational, optional, and paced in a way that respects your nervous system and your relationship.
Yes. Your safety—emotional and somatic—is non-negotiable here. The pace is gentle, consent is ongoing, and there is no requirement to push past your limits. We also have two dedicated emotional-support space-holders present throughout the series. If anything arises—big feelings, discomfort, sensation overload, old patterns—you’ll have immediate support and a quiet, grounded place to recalibrate before rejoining the group. You are never alone inside this container.
The space is an open-concept room, but each couple will have their own defined section to practice in. Think of it as shared energy with personal territory. You’ll be close enough to feel part of a collective experience, yet grounded in your own intimate world with your partner.
We encourage soft eyes, not hard eyes—meaning no one will be watching you for their own stimulation or entertainment. Instead, participants are invited to hold a gentle, unfocused awareness of the room. This creates an atmosphere where you can draw inspiration from the collective field without feeling scrutinized or exposed.
Your connection remains your own, and the room is held with respect, discretion, and a strong culture of consent.
SAVOR isn’t just an experience—it’s a skill set. You’ll learn practices that help you speak your desires, regulate your body, give and receive touch with presence, and expand pleasure without pressure. These tools translate directly into your daily intimacy: better communication, deeper attunement, clearer boundaries, more confidence, and a relationship that feels alive rather than habitual. The work doesn’t end when the series ends; it ripples forward.
Yes. After completing SAVOR, you and your partner are invited to a free 1-hour integration session with either Kim or Margaux. If you prefer, this can be split into two 30-minute individual check-ins so each person can receive private coaching. This call is a space to reflect, ask questions, integrate the tools into your daily lives, and receive guidance tailored to your relationship’s next steps. Continued learning options will also be announced to the group for those who want to go deeper.
You don’t need experience to join Savor but you do need to bring a willingness to meet yourself honestly. This space will invite new sensations, new edges, and moments that may feel unfamiliar or uncomfortable. That’s part of the work.
We ask that you enter with a commitment to notice what’s happening in your body, name your experience, and advocate for yourself. You are responsible for speaking up when something doesn’t feel right, asking for what you need, and choosing the pace that honors your boundaries. We’ll teach you tools to strengthen this agency, but it begins with your willingness to practice it from the moment you walk in.
This is a space that supports you deeply but it does not rescue, placate, or override your autonomy. Your voice, your choice, and your body’s truth matter here. And your active participation in honoring them is what makes the container safe, powerful, and transformative for everyone present.
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“My partner and I drove home mostly in silence, which is unusual for us. Not because something was wrong, but because we were both still feeling what had shifted. Margaux and Kim created a space where we didn’t have to perform closeness. We just had to be honest. That changed how we touched and talked to each other afterward.”
- SJ
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